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@ 2013-01-03 05:05 pm UTC
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So apparently some guy in Kansas donated sperm to a lesbian couple where
the contact point was Craigslist, not a sperm bank, and now that the
couple's split, Kansas wants the guy to pay the custodial parent child
support. And everybody is talking about it as a case in point of the
dangers of donating sperm through not-a-sperm-bank.

Why is nobody talking about it as a case in point of the problems of not
having marriage equality? Because this kid does not have a dad, and it's
ridiculous to try to treat the sperm donor as a dad. This kid has two moms,
and the one that doesn't have custody should retain parental rights and
responsibilities including but not limited to the child support Kansas is
trying to get the sperm donor to pay.


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pauamma: Cartooney crab holding drink ("Cartooney crab holding drink")


[personal profile] pauamma
2013-01-03 11:24 pm UTC (link)
Are the moms living in KS too? Or the one who got custody?

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[personal profile] elliemurasaki
2013-01-04 06:21 am UTC (link)
I believe they both are, yes.

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pauamma: Cartooney crab holding drink ("Cartooney crab holding drink")


[personal profile] pauamma
2013-01-04 11:14 am UTC (link)
*nod* (I think, after some thought, that the way I see it as depends on the non-custodial mom's stance and willingness to provide child support.)

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[personal profile] elliemurasaki
2013-01-04 04:07 pm UTC (link)
I have no idea whether that's an issue. She doesn't seem to be the kid's other legal parent, she certainly had no relationship with the custodial mom that Kansas recognizes, so Kansas is ignoring her entirely.

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pauamma: Cartooney crab holding drink ("Cartooney crab holding drink")


[personal profile] pauamma
2013-01-04 05:37 pm UTC (link)
*nod* I was thinking about her maybe passing money to the guy, if KS insists it has to come from (or through) him. But on 2nd thought, how long until some idiot screams OMGterristmoneylaundering?

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[personal profile] tptigger
2013-01-03 11:43 pm UTC (link)
Kansas doesn't believe in evolution. Such concepts are beyond them?

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[personal profile] myaibou
2013-01-04 03:21 am UTC (link)
So. STUPID. So, if my husband and I used a sperm donor to have kids and later divorced, would anybody on the PLANET think for a second that the donor should be involved in custody or child support in ANY WAY? How is this remotely different? Oh yeah, lack of legal protections. ::headwall::

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